By Gergely Orosz, the author of The Pragmatic Engineer Newsletter and Building Mobile Apps at Scale

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Navigating senior, tech lead, staff and principal positions at tech companies and startups. An Amazon #1 Best Seller. New: the hardcover is out! As is the audibook. Now available in 6 languages.

The Software Engineer's Guidebook

What's Inside

Part 1: Developer Career Fundamentals

1. Career paths
2. Owning your career
3. Performance reviews
4. Promotions
5. Thriving in different environments
6. Switching jobs

Part 2: The Competent Software Developer

7. Getting things done
8. Coding
9. Software development
10. Tools of the productive engineer

Part 3: The Well-Rounded Senior Engineer

11. Getting things done
12. Collaboration and teamwork
13. Software engineering
14. Testing
15. Software architecture

Part 4: The Pragmatic Tech Lead

16. Project management
17. Shipping in production
18. Stakeholder management
19. Team structure
20. Team dynamics

Part 5: Role-Model Staff and Principal Engineers

21. Understanding the business
22. Collaboration
23. Software engineering
24. Reliable software engineering
25. Software architecture

Further reading: online, bonus chapters

Bonus #1: for Part 1
Bonus #2: for Part 2
Bonus #3: for Part 3
Bonus #4: for Part 4
Bonus #5: for Part 5
See more details for each chapter in the extended table of contents for the book.

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The dating sim asks: Who do you want to love? The fixed romance asks: What does it feel like to love this specific person, under these specific circumstances, regardless of your original intent?

In a true player-preference sandbox, the romance is a wish-fulfillment engine. You pick the character you find most attractive, align with your sexuality, and project your own fantasy onto them. The narrative bends to the player's ego.

For decades, the tug-of-war between player agency and authorial intent has defined the narrative RPG. On one side, you have the sprawling sandbox of Baldur’s Gate 3 or Mass Effect , where you can romance almost any crew member regardless of gender or moral alignment. On the other, you have the "canon" love story—the pre-ordained, narrative-coded relationship like Tidus and Yuna in Final Fantasy X or Geralt and Yennefer in The Witcher .

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Fixed relationships, conversely, allow for . Because the writers know Ellie loves Dina, Dina’s presence can affect the actual gameplay . Her safety becomes a mission objective. Her opinion changes the dialogue in combat. The romance is woven into the fabric of the level design, not just a dialogue wheel at the end of a loyalty mission. The Violence of "Nice" Preferences There is a darker, often unspoken layer to this debate: The rejection of the "Canon" partner.

But here is the secret that sandbox romances hide: Because the game has to account for ten different partners, each romance usually gets three unique cutscenes and a sex scene. The relationship exists in a vacuum, isolated from the main plot.

When players reject a fixed romance, they are often rejecting the vulnerability the game demands. In The Last of Us , Ellie is gay. That is fixed. If a player (especially a male player controlling Ellie) feels uncomfortable flirting with Dina, the game does not apologize. It forces the player to sit in that discomfort. The dating sim asks: Who do you want to love

Why does this specific structure cause so much friction? And why, when executed poorly, does it feel like a violation of self, but when executed well, feels like a masterclass in empathy? The core conflict boils down to a single question: Are you playing as you , or are you playing as them ?

In a fixed relationship, the game asks you to become an actor. You are given a script. Your "choice" isn't about changing the plot; it’s about interpretation . Do you play Geralt as gruffly protective of Yennefer or sarcastically resigned to her chaos? The love is non-negotiable; the texture is yours.

This is the design where the game dictates who you fall in love with (a specific NPC), but gives you slight tonal control over how it unfolds. Think The Last of Us Part II (Ellie and Dina), Life is Strange (Max and Chloe), or Spider-Man (Peter and MJ). The destination is fixed. The journey has a few dialogue branches. You pick the character you find most attractive,

If you are a straight man playing Ellie, you cannot "fix" her heterosexuality. You must perform a queer romance to progress. This isn't bad design; it is . The game prioritizes the character's truth over the player's comfort. Where the Magic Breaks: The "Fake Choice" Trap The fixed relationship fails only when it lies about the "preference."

The deepest immersion isn’t always about getting what you want. Sometimes, it’s about feeling what the character feels, even—especially—when it doesn't match your personal preference.

How to Read the Book

The book is separated into six standalone parts, each part covering several chapters:

  • Part 1: Developer career fundamentals
  • Part 2: The competent software developer
  • Part 3: The well-rounded senior engineer
  • Part 4: The pragmatic tech lead
  • Part 5: Role-model staff and principal engineers
  • Part 6: Conclusion

Parts 1 and 6 apply to all engineering levels: from entry-level software developers to principal or above engineers. Parts 2, 3, 4 and 5 cover increasingly senior engineering levels. These four parts group topics in chapters – such as ones on software engineering, collaboration, getting things done, and so on.

This book is more of a reference book that you can refer back to, as you grow in your career. I suggest skimming over the career levels and chapters that you are familiar with, and focus reading on topics you struggle with, or career levels where you are aiming to get to. Keep in mind that expectations can vary greatly between companies.

In this book, I’ve aimed to align the topics and leveling definitions closer to what is typical at Big Tech and scaleups: but you might find some of the topics relevant for lower career levels in later chapters. For example, we cover logging, montiroing and oncall in Part 5: “Reliable software systems” in-depth: but it’s useful – and oftentimes necessary! – to know about these practices below the staff engineer levels.

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The Software Engineer's Guidebook is available in multiple languages:

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The book doesn't ship to my location, or shipping is silly expensive off Amazon.

You should now be able to ask your local book shops to order the book for you via Ingram Spark Print-on-demand - using the ISBN code 9789083381824. I'm also working on making the paperback more accessible in additional regions, including translated versions. Please share details here if you're unable to get the book in your country and I'll aim to remedy the situation.

I'm an engineering manager. Is the book useful to me?

I'd like to think so! The book can help you get ideas on how to help software engineers on your team grow. And if you are a hands-on engineering manager (which I hope you might be!) then you can apply the topics yourself! I wrote more about staying hands-on as an engineering manager or lead in The Pragmatic Engineer Newsletter.

I'm not a software engineer. Is the book useful to me?

I've gotten this variation of a question from Data Engineers, ML Engineers, designers and SREs. See the more detailed table of contents and the "Look inside" sample to get a better idea of the contents of the book. I have written this book with software engineers as the target group, and the bulk of the book applies for them. Part 1 is more generally applicable career advice: but that's still smaller subset of the book.

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About the Author

I've been a software engineer for a decade — working at JP Morgan, Skype/Microsoft, Skyscanner and Uber — and then an engineering manager for another several years.

As an engineering manager, I did my best to support people on my team to improve professionally, get the promotions they deserved, and give clear, actionable feedback when I thought colleagues weren’t ready for the next level, just yet.

As my team grew and I took on skip-level reports, I had less and less time to mentor teammates in-depth. I also started to see patterns in the feedback I gave, so began to publish blog posts of the advice I found myself giving repeatedly; about writing well, and doing good code reviews. These posts were warmly received, and a lot more people than I expected read and shared them with colleagues. This is when I began writing this book.

The book took four years to write. By year two of the writing process, I had a draft that could be ready to publish. However, at that time I launched The Pragmatic Engineer Newsletter. The focus of this newsletter is keeping the pulse of today’s tech market, plus regular deepdives into how well-known, international companies operate, software engineering trends, and occasional interviews with interesting tech people. Writing the newsletter made me realize just how many “gaps” were in the book draft. The past two years have been spent rewriting and honing its contents, one chapter at a time.

Today, The Pragmatic Newsletter is the #1 technology newsletter on Substack — with more than 500,000 readers. The newsletter has helped me improve the book; I’ve learned lots about interesting trends and new tools that feel like they are here to stay for a decade or longer, such as AI coding tools, cloud development environments, and developer portals. These technologies are referenced in this book in much less detail than you will find in the newsletter.

I hope you discover useful ideas in this book, which serve you well for years to come.

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