We have pathologized kindness. We tell our children, "Don’t be a pushover." We tell our friends, "They don’t deserve your empathy." We have decided that to be good is to be naive; to be moral is to be a mark.
Perhaps being an "idiot" today means logging off. It means saying "I love you" first. It means admitting you don't understand the crypto market. It means crying at a movie. It means choosing sincerity over satire. o idiota dostoievski
Dostoevsky calls it hell.
We call this "being street smart."